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so pissed at my DH right now. He took 2 classes this summer, summer 1 to be exact. and i kept asking him if they posted his grades and he kept saying no not yet. so i was kinda suspicious because fall classes are about to start so his summer I grades should have been up. well this morning i went on to his account through school and found out he got a D in one class and withdrew from another. like WTF he couldn't tell me this himself...did he think he'd get away with it. and the military is paying for his school so if he withdrew from a class does he have to pay the military that money that they already paid for the class?

oh and i text him and asked him if he was ever going to tell me and he hasnt answered me back yet AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

He will have to pay back the money if he dropped out of the classes (my brother was a Marine and any classes he has dropped out of he has had to pay back).

That's because he knows he's BUSTED.

Men will never learn that we're smarter than them.

If he withdrew, I'm not sure. How is the military funding? Is it a per-credit basis or a bredit-bracket basis?

When I got funding through my dad (disabled vets), 0-6 credits was $x, 7-12 was $x, and so on...

uh its just so frustrating when he lies to me about stupid shit like this it makes me wonder what else has he lied to me about ya know? im not sure about the funding all i know is that they paid for his classes 100% unless he fails. if he fails a class then we have to pay that money back to the military. Thank god the community college he is going to considers a D passing or we would be SOL. but im not sure how the whole withdrawing from a class works cause he didnt fail he just withdrew before he failed.

oh I would be one pissed off mama too!!!!

It depends when he withdrew. You'd have to check the college specifically on their guidelines...

I don't think he would be lieing about anything else... He's probably just embarrassed? What class was it?

oh i am LaDonna and he is so gonna hear it from me when he gets home from work!

um i know that the school doesnt count that class on your records if you withdrew from it...its almost like you never took it at all. so i dunno, im just worried that the military is going to count that as a fail and make us pay the money back because its prolly about $500 that we would have to pay. the class he withdrew from was American Literature - Romanticism to Skepticism. and he got a D in Macroeconomic Principles.

i dont think hes lied about anything else but it still pops in my head like if he can lie about something so little like this then what else could he have lied about ya know. ugh idk

My brother withdrew before he failed and he had to pay the military back the money. Fooey!

Your going to have to rip him a new one! Baaaad bad bad husband!

He took Macroeconomics but withdrew from AMERICAN LITERATURE?!?!?!



I will burn Economics in hell. I hated that class.

I wonder if you don't have to pay it back and that's why he didn't tell you...how else would you know?

tate- dont tell me that we cant afford to pay it back especially with the twins coming

Jeannette-i know right! i took macroeconomics and it was hard as hell in fact i got a D in it. but american lit? come on how are could that have been. oh and the crazy part is is that he only had to do his shit 1 night a week and then we went on vaca for a week then me and DD went to PA while DH stayed here so he had ALL THE TIME IN THE WORLD to do his shit. i just dont understand

What happens if I drop out of a class or all my classes?
If a student drops a course(s) or withdraws from school the VA will immediately stop paying education benefits for those classes and the student may be billed for the education benefits they have already been paid for that term. Students are strongly encouraged to notify the VA immediately of a withdrawal to minimize overpayments.

The VA will bill a student in this situation unless circumstances beyond the student's control prevented the student from continuing in school or caused the student to reduce credits. These mitigating circumstances are presumed to exist the first time a student drops 6 or less credits. After the first drop a veteran must prove to the VA that mitigating circumstances were the cause of the drop/withdrawal.

Examples of mitigating circumstances include:

Mental or physical illness or injury afflicting the student during the enrollment period.
Illness or death in the student’s immediate family.
Unavoidable change in the student’s conditions of employment.
Unavoidable geographical transfer resulting from the student’s employment.
Immediate family or financial obligations beyond the control of the claimant that require him or her to suspend pursuit of the program of education to obtain employment.
Discontinuance of the course by the school.
Unanticipated active military service, including active duty for training.
Unanticipated difficulties with childcare arrangements the student has made for the period during which he or she is attending classes.
If VA rules that mitigating circumstances do not exist than the student will be charged for any education benefits they received for that academic term (e.g., tuition/fees, living allowance and book stipend).

Also my brother had a $4,000 dollar charge to his credit from the VA and it ruined his credit score because he didn't have 4,000 to pay it back....my mom went down and talked to the lady that works for the VA at the college and it turns out the $4,000 was an accidental charge! He only had to pay back what the class cost ...the $4,000 was a mistype!


(This happened like...last month)


Here is the website I found that information on:

http://www.newgibill.org/get_answers#75

well they werent making payments to his school. they paid in full at the beginning of the semester. does that matter

Thats how they did my brothers...and he had to pay the money back.

ugh i think im going to kill my DH tonight he is deff on my Shit list and may not get off of it for a while

Well ...they probably told him when he signed up the results of failing or dropping a class.

I hate that for ya'll and if I were you I might just beat him to death

...and you're hormonal. Double hormonal.

haha that too geeze he really messed up!

i think im going to lol...oh he finally text me back .. this is how our convo is going...

me:whats your log in info for school
me:when were you going to tell me you withdrew from a class and got a D in the other?
me:?
me: u there or r u just going to ignore me the rest of the day?
him: "log in" sorry i was doing something
me: oh no thats not the question in talkin about i already got that. go back and read your messages and dont act like you didnt get it cause i know you did.


and now hes back to ignoring me again

Jeannette wrote:...and you're hormonal. Double hormonal.

UH OH! Busted!

like hes so stupid sometimes, ugh i could really use a cig right now

he just called me and hes trying to say that the grades weren't up there last time he checked AND that he never withdrew from a class WTF i know a teacher will not withdraw you from a class unless you ask them to after the deadline and they are nice. now i know there is a deadline on when you can withdraw from classes which means he would have had to withdraw from it a while ago like right after classes started .... ugh why cant he just admit it

I wonder what he thinks lying will do to fix this problem