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Post by Kelly on Thu Oct 21, 2010 3:52 pm

i am so fed up with the marine corps and my husband right now its not even funny. They just keep screwing with our lives and plans that i dont think i can handle it anymore
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Post by Kelly on Thu Oct 21, 2010 3:53 pm

and it doesnt seem like my husband cares or even understands where im coming from
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Post by Jeannette on Thu Oct 21, 2010 3:54 pm

Has this been going on for longer than a week just like me?!?!

Between Jon bitching about how he hates his job and the MC not knowing what the hell they're doing, I'm ready to call up the chain of command and flip out.

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Post by Liz on Thu Oct 21, 2010 3:57 pm

What's going on?
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Post by Jeannette on Thu Oct 21, 2010 3:59 pm

You can't post this and sign off Kelly!!! hissyfit

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Post by Liz on Thu Oct 21, 2010 4:01 pm

I know, right?
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Post by HeatherMo on Thu Oct 21, 2010 4:01 pm

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Post by Tate on Thu Oct 21, 2010 4:27 pm

Yeah Kelly you can't post and just sign off lol

The MC plagues us all I do believe!

I'm right there with you though...the MC has been worse than usually lately!

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Post by Kelly on Thu Oct 21, 2010 4:28 pm

im sorry i needed to take a shower and get away from my husband.

he comes home after not talking to me all day and tells me that our leave is pushed back 3 days BC they have stuff going on, and he claims they wont give him 3 days at the end of his leave but yet he didnt even ask
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Post by Jeannette on Thu Oct 21, 2010 4:29 pm

What kind of leave is it?

Or are you guys just taking personal/vacation leave and they're screwing you?

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Post by Tate on Thu Oct 21, 2010 4:31 pm

BLAH! Sounds like a issue we are having...we want to take leave for Thanksgiving and be there when my cousin (more like brother) graduates from Army bootcamp (which is more a blessing than anything...that kid has been in more trouble than anyone I know). They have a mandatory meeting on the 22nd...Thanksgiving is the 25th. WHY would they do that? They KNOW people will be taking leave!

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Post by Kelly on Thu Oct 21, 2010 4:34 pm

its personal, we have so much to do when we go home, like we have a housewarming party, my baby shower, we have to go get a car, plus the fact that we have to go see family all over the place, we have a wedding and rehersal dinner, my brothers gf baby shower. not to mention the fact that it takes us 10 hours to get home and they now want us to leave on a friday which means we arent going to be getting home until after midnight then we have to cram all of that in and drive back here 10 days later?!
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Post by Kelly on Thu Oct 21, 2010 4:35 pm

well originally i didnt want to take leave until nov 10 but the marine corps screwed us on that one too bc they are now making my hubby go to the marine corps ball on the 20th
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Post by Tate on Thu Oct 21, 2010 4:39 pm

Yeah I hate leave issues! I hope he will talk to them though and see if something can be worked out!

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Post by Jeannette on Thu Oct 21, 2010 4:44 pm

Why are they making him go! That's dumb.

Agh.

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Post by Kelly on Thu Oct 21, 2010 4:45 pm

he wont cause hes too much of a pus*y sometimes. he assumes they wont try to work with him on things bc thats how his old unit was and i keep telling him to just talk to someone about it(not this in particular we had this argument on several occasions) and hes like "well its not gonna matter bc they arent going to be able to do anything...blah..blah...blah

at this rate he will not be reenlisting in 4 years
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Post by Tate on Thu Oct 21, 2010 4:46 pm

Haha yeah...I think sometimes they just don't want to deal with it.

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Post by Jeannette on Thu Oct 21, 2010 4:47 pm

Kelly wrote:he wont cause hes too much of a pus*y sometimes. he assumes they wont try to work with him on things bc thats how his old unit was and i keep telling him to just talk to someone about it(not this in particular we had this argument on several occasions) and hes like "well its not gonna matter bc they arent going to be able to do anything...blah..blah...blah
at this rate he will not be reenlisting in 4 years

This answer makes me want to stab my husband.

I really REALLY don't understand why we have more of a backbone. I'm on a contract to be Uncle Sam's b*tch...what are they reallyyyyyy going to do to me if I just try to fix the clusterfuck? lol

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Post by Kelly on Thu Oct 21, 2010 4:50 pm

Jeannette wrote:Why are they making him go! That's dumb.

Agh.

i dont know but i cant go bc its goin to be too much money with the tickets,dress, babysitting(yup thats right we have to get our own baby sitter, plus its in wilmington so we have to fork out gas money....oh and he has to go early to help set up
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Post by Kelly on Thu Oct 21, 2010 4:50 pm

Jeannette wrote:
Kelly wrote:he wont cause hes too much of a pus*y sometimes. he assumes they wont try to work with him on things bc thats how his old unit was and i keep telling him to just talk to someone about it(not this in particular we had this argument on several occasions) and hes like "well its not gonna matter bc they arent going to be able to do anything...blah..blah...blah
at this rate he will not be reenlisting in 4 years

This answer makes me want to stab my husband.

I really REALLY don't understand why we have more of a backbone. I'm on a contract to be Uncle Sam's b*tch...what are they reallyyyyyy going to do to me if I just try to fix the clusterfuck? lol

i dont get it either it makes me want to kill him
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Post by Jeannette on Thu Oct 21, 2010 4:53 pm

Kelly wrote:
Jeannette wrote:Why are they making him go! That's dumb.

Agh.

i dont know but i cant go bc its goin to be too much money with the tickets,dress, babysitting(yup thats right we have to get our own baby sitter, plus its in wilmington so we have to fork out gas money....oh and he has to go early to help set up

We're struggling too. It's kinda my fault though...

It's our last opportunity for a ball and we missed the ball for 2 years due to deployments.

We have the tickets, he's got his blues in the works, I need a dress, and...we have no sitter. Freakout

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Post by Kelly on Thu Oct 21, 2010 4:55 pm

your ball is going to be around here right? they may have some kind of babysitting for the ball...i would ask him to look into it
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Post by Jeannette on Thu Oct 21, 2010 4:58 pm

Our's is on the 5th. On a Friday night. mumble

I have to take off work. tired

It's at the field house, as always. lol

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Post by Kelly on Thu Oct 21, 2010 5:02 pm

oh how i dont miss that place... i would call your fro and see if they have something set up for babysitting, or they may even be able to give you a list a referred babysitters
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Post by Tate on Fri Oct 22, 2010 7:31 am

Yeah Jeannette they are probably offering child care. But he has to be enrolled in CDC. Which should be pretty simple if John just goes in and signs him up. Make sure he takes a copy of his latest physical and shot records.

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