Ugh

so i really hate doing laundry probably bc i do it most of the time without DHs help. last weekend i did like 5 loads and yes DH did help wash them, but not fold them so i left them in the laundry room hoping that he would fold them. Well he didnt. so today i finally started to fold them, and what does he do...goes and gets a shower. Well by the time he got done i was on his clothes and does he help? NO he sits right in front of me and gets on his computer and doesnt even offer to help WTF. it normally would be that big of a deal except i look and feel like im about 7 months preggo. ugh i just wish he would help with things like that sometimes

If it makes you feel better my husband doesn't do anything here (No cleaning, no cooking, nothing). Every one in a while he will take the trash out. About twice a year he will clean something. I'm not complaining since it is pretty much my fault that I have never made him do anything, and now I just can't make him. I have learned to pick my battles though.

yea i could say something and prolly get into a fight with him about it but it wouldnt matter bc he would do anything about it

That's what ended up happening with us.

When I was working, it was a little better, but now that I am just a full time student (as if that's not hard either) I am expected to do more. I understand he is taking classes and is still AD and has duty a lot, but it is the principle of the matter. If he would offer to help, I probably would still do it, but it would make me happier. Probably the same for you, right?

well normally i would say yes just offering would make it better, but bc i am carrying twins around no i need his help actually doing it haha