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Let's piss and moan about how much TTC can suck!

Post by Guest on Fri Jan 15, 2010 2:53 am

Reposted from another site:

Me first me first!

I'm planning a baby-shower right now for my SIL. It's on the 17th, and
I'm not looking forward to it. I miscarried my very-much-wanted baby in
October, and she's having her Oopsie Daisy Baby any second now. Most of
the time I'm genuinely happy to help and I love nothing more than to
talk about baby things with her.

For some reason, tonight is NOT one of those nights. I'm bitter and
annoyed. I see stories about women who trade their children for a gun
and I think, "Wow. What I wouldn't give to have a child." I hear about
crack babies and think, "Damn. Why did she have to get pregnant
accidentally when I want nothing more than to be a mom?"

Come on. I can't be the only one with a broken heart who wants the almighty to drop a bundle on their doorstep!

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Re: Let's piss and moan about how much TTC can suck!

Post by LaDonna on Fri Jan 15, 2010 12:08 pm

Hey I'm with you there...... it took DH and I two years to get pregnant and seemed everywhere I looked women were getting abortions or abandoning their kids.... it broke my heart!!! I kept wondering why they were blessed with kids they didn't want and I couldn't have one that I desperately wanted..... I had to remind myself constantly that God has a plan.

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Post by Guest on Fri Jan 15, 2010 1:16 pm

I have a hard time accepting being part of someone's plan and not knowing what it is. I don't like surprises, haha!

So I've put goodness knows how many man hours into this shower. I made, printed, and cut the Baby Shower Bingo cards. I designed, printed, cut, set up, and bagged the favors. I filled and ribbon'd all of the goody bags.

I've been keeping my fingers crossed and trying to be positive that we'll be able to get me preggers soon after I move down to Pensacola. But it's really difficult to do when your SIL has managed to get unexpectedly pregnant. I hate that I feel like I have to explain that I'm happy she's having a baby, I just want one too, but I figure that the feeling would make sense with other people who are TTC.

So here I am, wanting to have a munchkin so badly, and doing all sorts of graphic design projects that say, "It's a boy!" and "Welcome Sean Thomas Mc--------". It kills me, it really does. Blargh. I'll have one of my own eventually. If I don't get pregnant in a year, we're going to adopt a little girl.

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Post by LaDonna on Fri Jan 15, 2010 1:19 pm

That's what we planned on doing.... I had already contacted the adoption agencies.... talked to a social worker..... all that.... then I got pregnant!!! It was a WONDERFUL surprise!

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Post by Guest on Fri Jan 15, 2010 6:15 pm

I always say that I want to adopt a little black girl and give her a cute little afro. In reality, I just want a healthy child that needs a home.

We've talked about adopting 'older' children, too. There's no reason why a perfectly wonderful 3, or 7, or 14 year old shouldn't have a loving and supportive home.

Makes TTC a lot less stressful when you think of all the kids already here that need you. Smile

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Post by Hope on Fri Jan 15, 2010 10:11 pm

How long have you been trying? Smile and have you had any med. procedures done or levels checked? I know it's a huge pain in the butt AND the wait is just grrr .

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